Maximizing a Minimal Toy Stash

A huge part of my "making do" is one I am honestly a little ashamed of sometimes. I hate whining about having very little space, when in reality, I live in a 2-bedroom apartment. It's the presence of work surfaces, crafting surfaces, clothes, books, hubby's video game collection, and other STUFF that informs our existence but also takes up our space. The reason for my twinge of guilt is that I know and I've seen how the rest of the world lives. Two bedrooms in rural Africa? Opulence. But even owning the hundredth part of what we own would be opulence there as well. However, I do have to be sensitive to the culture in which I live; and according to our culture's norms, we live a pretty simple life, relatively free of the bonds of our things. And I want badly to continue in that direction. Giving away, throwing away, and selling all are regular parts of our efforts to pare down and remove unnecessary junk from our small home. And the more we do that, the more breathable space is available, the more we can fill our home with what really matters, the more we can create an environment that is uncluttered and inviting.

Then there's the challenge of passing on that gift to our children. Much of the environment of the home is situated around Raiden's needs. He's almost 18 months old, so he can reach everything up to my rib cage, but doesn't yet have the control to be trusted with things like houseplants and crystal. That means I have to keep things in different places for both our sakes. He also requires stimulation through play, both with household items and his own toys. This is really where this post comes in. How do you make do with little space, few toys, and keep a sense of organization and plenty of opportunity at every turn for fun? This is what has worked well for me:

I love the concept of stations. Brightly-colored objects en masse are quickly overwhelming. A toy box begs to be dumped with no concern for any of the individual items. Besides, where would I put one? But if I set aside some small spaces and place a few toys there, then he has options all over the room that call for his agency and creativity.

SO, I'm going to show you ALL of my little boy's toys and how they're arranged on the rare occasion that they are in their places of belonging. Everything else he plays with is house-related.

This is where most of his toys are. Behind him is a pull toy and a popping push toy.The box has several small toys in it and the table has a xylophone, a soft toy, and two different stacking toys on it. The push toy is the only thing we have right now that is electronic. Everything else only makes noise if you make the noise yourself. 

Under the coffee table is where the mega blocks and the hot wheels go. He can pull them out and put them back at will. You can see that the "broom brooms" have already seen some action this morning.

I cleaned out one shelf and had some space in front of the books. The top shelf has two puzzles and the bottom one has about 18 different books. One is electronic, one is soft, and two or three are touch-oriented. 

This is his bedroom. There is one box of shapes and cutouts, a bowl of stacking toys turned into balls, and two exercise balls that double as toys. In the crib are two soft puppies that he sleeps between while under his puppy blanket.

And that's it. That's all we've got out for him. For rotation purposes, I keep a box of things hidden away in the closet, and every 3 months or so will trade out unused toys for new ones.

Making Crispy Hair Amazing on a Making-Do Budget

Yick! Every winter, it's the same story. My hair goes from glowing with health to crispy, breaking, and with split ends everywhere. After trim and trim again, I'm left feeling like all the work I've put into length has been lost.

What is the culprit? Well, I looked up some possible ones, and ranked myself on how mean I was being to my hair:

Hot air dryer (blow dryer): Nope. I use it once or twice a year. Air dry for me.
Curling/straightening irons: Again, super rarely. Not enough to explain this.
Shampoo with alcohol in it: Probably. It's cheap stuff, but I only shampoo the roots.
Shampooing daily: Nope. Two-three times a week, and again, only the roots.
Not conditioning enough: Haha, no. I condition (often deep condition) every time I wash.

Not trimming: Probably not enough. I trim every few months or so... when it gets scraggly.

Hot showers: Um, yes. I wash my hair in really warm, kinda hot showers. Not changing that.

Another thing not mentioned that I think might bear some weight: Pregnancy. My body oils are being re-routed as fat blobs on a certain tiny creature growing inside me. I'm not complaining, but probably should take some fish oil. Catholics and Lent means no wild-caught fish on sale for me.

SO, what's an amazing solution on a making-do budget?

Apparently, hair masks are easy, cheap, and quick to make yourself. Got any of these lying around?

Honey

Apple cider vinegar

Extra virgin olive oil

Almond oil or coconut oil

Avocado

Egg yolk

All these things are great mask ingredients! I used what I had on hand (avocado, honey, and olive oil) and made a thick goop to put on my hair. I clipped it up (not easy when hands and hair are covered in goop) and left it for at least an hour, then rinsed the worst out, braided it, and washed it the next morning.

The result: I still have split ends. Nothing will make them heal back, but my hair is no longer dry, crispy, or threatening to break off. It feels soft, thick, and healthy again. A trim will finish off the breaks that already are there, but this should stave off the new ones and allow the hair to keep growing through the last of this winter.